Usually this is preceded by a serious event in a woman's life. We have already mentioned the so-called psihotravmah - the death of her husband and family, loneliness, divorce, financial and moral losses, followed by alcoholism noticeably intensified, clearly manifested its consequences, the faster the maladjustment. This creates the impression of accelerating the formation of alcoholism in women. When it comes to women, drunks, the imagination gets a sister painting: bronzed face was swollen, inept make-up, matted hair, out of fashion clothes ... When it comes to men, drunks, the picture is little different from the above, except that no makeup. In fact, only one third of patients apply the terms "delete", "Fallen" and so on, with no difference between men and women not because we are talking about personal degradation, and it all evens out. If you go to the drug treatment clinic and impartial view of screened patients were male and the female unit, your opinion would probably be more favorable with respect to ... women. They quickly reduced form, but, alas, faster, and lose. What this helps? Often it was not that, and who - husbands, cohabitants, beloved. It is known that 70 percent of women alcoholics are men alcoholics. In men, this percentage is much lower. In the occurrence of female alcoholism significant role played by the so-called soldering husbands, alcoholics, their wives. Of course, you will object, it is difficult to make a drunkard who does not want it. And indeed, the majority of women who had been "forced" soldering, fathers suffer from alcoholism, so there was some psychobiological base for the development of alcoholism. Perhaps this is an element of inevitability I repeat - the probability of implementation and the reality of differences between them. Yes, women whose fathers suffer from alcoholism, it is possible to choose a spouse - the future of the alcoholic "father's grounds." Psychologically, this is understandable: the behavior of the drunken father, familiar from childhood, it is closer and easier to understand than the behavior of, say, an intellectual-teetotaler. Alcoholic habits of the future elect not afraid, because our father "drank more." Finds no resistance and soldering husbands of these women. And here we are faced with a situation where alcohol use by both spouses is a common consequence of alcohol traditions, passed down from generation to generation. The persistence of stereotypes of alcohol is simply amazing, and so will the alcoholism of alcoholism - a matter of time and internal features of an organism. Argue that women are virtually cured is not true. There are many research works on quite a successful treatment of female alcoholism. The problem is that with a woman should be treated and her spouse, or family disharmony occurs, and alcohol abuse husband will unconsciously provoke his wife to drink, to sabotage her sobriety.
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