Do not fall for my provocations ...

The main thing - to get rid of psychological dependence. A this is a long process. for a month, and even for years. - Helen A., but there are cases when a person smokes occasionally life "grass" or sniffing cocaine, but does not become an addict. - Yes, these cases are. But this is cases. The majority, especially younger ones, having tried cannabis, for example, moving quickly to cocaine, and eventually - on hard drugs. We have the most widespread and, alas, is available - heroin. Intermittent use it within 1 - 4 months leads to stable addiction. - Can you handle yourself with your vice? "- and such cases are. But then again, they only prove the rule: no expertise and long-term rehabilitation program, sooner or later the drug will still prevail. So if you have a family disaster struck do not hesitate to call and tune into a prolonged struggle. Lyudmila Mazurova

Message from the parents of a child

MESSAGE TO PARENTS FROM difficult child. My dear parents, do not indulge me, you do the port. I know very well that not necessarily give me all that I ask. I just feel you. Do not be afraid to be firm with me. I prefer this approach. This will allow me to easily determine their location. Do not be not consistent. It knocks me up and makes harder to try to all cases, leave the last word. Do not rely on the use of force in a relationship with me. It is tame to me that should be considered only with force. I voice to respond more readily to your initiative. Do not make promises that you can not do, it can shake my faith in you. Do not fall for my provocations when I say or do anything just to simply frustrate you. Otherwise, I will try to achieve more "victories." Do not worry too much when I say "I hate you. "In fact, it is not. I just want you to feel sorry for what I did. Do not make me feel younger than I am actually. I played on you for it, becoming a" crybaby "and "whiner." Do not do for me and for me that I was able to do for himself, otherwise I have a habit to use you as a servant. Do not pay attention to my "bad habits" It spoils me. I do not get better in the presence of strangers. I will pay much more attention to your comments, if you tell me everything is calm eye to eye. Do not try to discuss my behavior in the midst of conflict. According to some objective reasons, my hearing is dulled at this time, and my desire to act with you at the same time lost. It will be fine if you take certain steps later. Do not try to read my instructions and notations. You'll be amazed at how perfectly I understand what is good and what is bad. Do not make me feel that my transgressions always irreparable. I have to learn, having made a mistake, do not feel that I did not pass on that. Do not carp at me and do not nag at me.