And, what is most sad, man-alcoholic ...

The interesting thing is that she does this, usually unconsciously, and the actions of her, at first glance, seem способствующимивыздоровлению husband (scolds him for his drunkenness, drags on doctors, etc.). Sometimes the "holding" her husband in Alcoholism is engaged in his own mother, attacks, many other people (friends, friends, partners), but it uzhedrugaya theme. Is it possible to long marriage to a woman who drinks? Also yes, but it yavleniebolee rare, characterized by the fact that man is rolzabotlivogo father, and a woman - naughty daughter. Descriptions podobnoysituatsii in contemporary literature are rare, vozmozhnopotomu that the phenomenon is not widespread, kakpredyduschee. Finally, the long-term marriage in which husband and wife drink yavlyaetsyabrak alcoholics. This is a special situation where spouses are vanomalnoy psychological dependence from each other: they live in some iteh same alcoholic reveries, feel equally otverzhennymiobschestvom and equally dependent on the same "elixir of life, from alcohol. They can not break up because they have nowhere to go, as niktobolshe, except such as alcoholics, they do not understand. But those - svoiproblemy and fully replace the lost spouse (sometimes lyutonenavidimogo) none of them can not. And, what is most sad, man-alcoholic (as indicated by the science and statistics) still mozhnovytyanut from among alcoholics and return to normal life, but a woman-no ... Dimes EO

Caution! Gambling!

Behind the scenes, the last 5-10 years there were usually in public places, the subway, in small shops, foyers and lobbies supermarkets, color, colorful machines - gaming. Also unnoticed At the doctor's therapists and psychologists have a new category of patients with gambling addiction, which can not play. Machines are designed for all ages: from the smallest customers, who are hunting an iron paw to spring for a bunch of soft toys at the bottom of a transparent cube, to mature respectable clients, who can supply and a large amount of electronic roulette. Baby, tossing one coin after another, trying to catch the elusive toy, does not imply that he had won in the end wooly bear, cost him much more expensive than its real value. Likewise, an adult player who has put a lot of money, and eventually won, not really weigh that gain was preceded by a greater loss. But sometimes different. The principle of randomness can win right away, get "Freestuff" money or a toy next to nothing. And in the first and the second case, further work the basic principle of excitement: "What if? If I lost a few times, now must win "or" If I won so easily at once, they could win, and more! "And it's addictive. So begins the mechanism of action of excitement in the first and second variant a person pays for a thrilling sense of excitement "And suddenly, and now you are lucky!" But if a person with a stable psyche formed in a position to resist the temptation to play, the temptation of making money out of thin air, or by starting to play, time can tell yourself "Stop!", the child, adolescent, with prizes by presenting the possibility of "out of nothing" to get rich, he felt this sense of excitement, is retracted.