I do not want to conflict with parents, teachers.

The talk about poverty at all palatable to teen - painful. We adults know that life is striped, foul weather today, tomorrow will be the sun. Teen sees one - hopelessness. And pals here like this: "You want to get high?" Often ask children questions: "What do you think about this? And this? And how did your friend have? And how would you have done?" Ask yourself: Do you often interested in the opinion of a daughter or son about this or that event, event, person, phenomenon? Many will have to admit: it is very rare. But the question is good because it requires an answer, so - the work of the mind. How to harden a child so much that, he could say no to temptation? Reply looking adults worldwide. That is the goal and put in dozens of developing countries in the movement, "Thank you, no!" To be enabled and Russia. Its members set for themselves for at least two problems. First - create a child's attitude to the temptation, the ability to give him an accurate assessment and to say: "Yes, in the world there are many things that bring pleasure. Some of them are dangerous, and I'll be able to build a world without them." And the second - to create conditions for the reunification of children and adolescents around positive goals. Psychologists - members of the movement offer practical advice that can be helpful teenager in certain situations. They write: "The refusal of the use of alcohol and or drugs - not so easy. It requires serious consideration, specific practices and support. We want to help you and offer some answers, which you could use. Choose what suits you most. No, thanks. I want to be aware of the fact that I do. No, thanks. I'm going to ride a bike. No, thanks. I do not want to conflict with parents, teachers. No, thank you. If I drink (I will take drug), will lose control of himself. No, thanks. I do not like the taste of alcohol (the drug). No, thanks. It's not my style. "No, thanks. I have yet to do (I'm going to bed early, etc.). No thanks. After drinking, I quickly get tired. No, thank you. I do not want to get better (alcohol - high-calorie foods). No, thanks. I need to practice. No, thank you. You do not have anything else? "No, thanks." All methods are good to refuse. A child may choose. In this case, it would be good, he knew that those who offer him a slight buzz, can easily be debunked. Interested in distributing the drug the person usually says: "Drug use strong and talented people." Fact: all of them, even if we were so very soon and lost his power and talent. "Dope makes you free." The fact of: drug addicts are absolutely free from all the pleasures of life. "Drugs are" serious "and" not serious "- from which one can always refuse." Fact: You can seriously give up only once, the first one. But for 99 percent of children does not make it last. "Drugs help solve life's problems." Fact: they are all my life turned into a huge problem. "Drugs are like an adventure novel - eliminate the prose of life."