Monday 18 April 2011

It can be as low income ...

Is inside a person, these complexes are contributing to the first of uncertainty, fear, and later aggression. Often these phenomena ultimately lead to addiction. As a rule, our consciousness, refusing to remember their traumatic experiences, drives them into the subconscious. And as long as the addict does not reveal these fears and complexes that are not aware of them, not survive again, and finally let go, and they will lead to repeated failures. Because it only re-experienced experience free from the subconscious tension. The next stage of recovery is a break with their usual environment. Addict must wrest from it. S. Koponen convinced that the best long-term rehabilitation - the discovery of communes of the "Republic of SHKID", which would have been tough, but fair conditions for the correction and the socialization of drug addict. Long gap (up to a year) on the relationship narkosredy can break the reflex connections. Immersion in a simple, honest and real situation created in the municipality, provides an opportunity for internal growth, the emergence of self-esteem and acquire the necessary social skills. So is the reconstruction of personality, its maturation, the emergence of a sense of responsibility for their lives. However, care needs not only the addict but also his family. While the addict is in the commune, it is necessary to conduct psychological work with their parents because they are co-dependent, being "in harness" with their offspring, addicted to drugs. It's no secret that drug users are willing to deceive and even blackmail the family to get another "dose." How to behave with the child, "is stranded on a needle, than to help him, and how to survive by this difficult situation? These issues often hear from mothers and fathers whose children are in trouble. If you do not consider the drug problem at the state level, and restrict the family, the responsibility for the fact that children become drug addicts, in many ways lies precisely on the parents and relatives. After all, tend to fall into such trouble children, left to themselves when mom and dad did not have enough time on them. It can be as low income, and quite prosperous families in which children too pampered, indulging all whims. In the upbringing of children requires the golden mean. Child must pay as much attention and love that he did not feel abandoned, and at the same time does not allow permissiveness. As you get older it is important to vaccinate children a sense of responsibility, following the principle of "if you want to be an adult - be kind enough to take on a certain part of the family concerns." And then, from 14-17 years, when comes the stage of socialization of teenagers, the formation of his personality, leaving the care of elders, to give him the independence, but to ask for it. Parents are also often unwilling to recognize the fact that their son or daughter to become independent. Once the children "fly from the nest, the parents in the life of a vacuum: no longer care about anyone, no one to take care of, no one to save.

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