Source: Journal of Quality of Life.

themselves are not aware that they interfere with grown children, delaying the process of their growing up. Thus, in the rehabilitation of drug addicts is very important is a holistic approach that considers all possible faces problems: social, psychological, spiritual and physiological. The final decision lies in the question of drug prevention in schools, building the spiritual climate in the family. And most importantly: the problem can not be solved at the level of commercial centers and individual psychologists enthusiasts. It is necessary to state finally, not in words but in reality have turned to this trouble. Otherwise this is a serious problem threatens to soon reach the scale of a national catastrophe.

Source: Journal of Quality of Life. Prevention. "№ 6 November-December 2002   

Alcohol ecology and the problem of treatment of alcohol dependence

Head. Office - Panasyuk Yuri A., Panasyuk, Andrei Vladimirovich PG" RCH "psychiatric ward. 3300, MD, Moldavia, the Tiraspol Str. Mira 33, PI "RCH Drinking alcohol is accepted as ubiquitous and widespread that it is impossible to restrict aid only to people with the development of dependence. Help and support is essential to many people at all stages and in all forms of alcohol consumption. Such a support person can to, having the knowledge and skills of the new interdisciplinary field known as "alcohol environment." Alcoholic ecology - is to protect people from the destructive, destructive action of alcohol on the body, changed the picture of intoxication, slowing the development of addiction, overcoming dependence on alcohol. The purpose of alcohol Ecology is to achieve disciplined, the optimal dose of drinking, increasing the positive effects of alcohol and the greatest possible reduction of its harmful effects on humans. Pursuing environmental alcohol to her, we seek to minimize the harmful effects of alcohol consumption, to optimize its use, to the consumption of clean and high quality beverages to help people with alcohol problems. [5] In the alcohol environment can be distinguished in its social, biological and psychological aspects. Alcoholism and drug addiction are biopsychosocial disorders. This means that the disease physically destroy your body (bio), affects the mind (psycho) and seriously alter the ratio of a patient with people, sprawling family and dropping it on the bottom of life (socio). All attempts to complete ban on alcohol in all historical periods proved at best futile and often harmful to society. So, "Prohibition in the United States has led to the formation of organized crime. Trying sharp restriction of alcohol in the USSR led to unprecedented growth of drunkenness and alcoholism, and drug and substance abuse. Alcohol ecology aims to optimize the relationship of man with alcohol. In this it differs from the Clinical Addiction, which is really interested only in already sick man, and all patients usually offers a complete abstinence from alcohol.

It can be as low income ...

Is inside a person, these complexes are contributing to the first of uncertainty, fear, and later aggression. Often these phenomena ultimately lead to addiction. As a rule, our consciousness, refusing to remember their traumatic experiences, drives them into the subconscious. And as long as the addict does not reveal these fears and complexes that are not aware of them, not survive again, and finally let go, and they will lead to repeated failures. Because it only re-experienced experience free from the subconscious tension. The next stage of recovery is a break with their usual environment. Addict must wrest from it. S. Koponen convinced that the best long-term rehabilitation - the discovery of communes of the "Republic of SHKID", which would have been tough, but fair conditions for the correction and the socialization of drug addict. Long gap (up to a year) on the relationship narkosredy can break the reflex connections. Immersion in a simple, honest and real situation created in the municipality, provides an opportunity for internal growth, the emergence of self-esteem and acquire the necessary social skills. So is the reconstruction of personality, its maturation, the emergence of a sense of responsibility for their lives. However, care needs not only the addict but also his family. While the addict is in the commune, it is necessary to conduct psychological work with their parents because they are co-dependent, being "in harness" with their offspring, addicted to drugs. It's no secret that drug users are willing to deceive and even blackmail the family to get another "dose." How to behave with the child, "is stranded on a needle, than to help him, and how to survive by this difficult situation? These issues often hear from mothers and fathers whose children are in trouble. If you do not consider the drug problem at the state level, and restrict the family, the responsibility for the fact that children become drug addicts, in many ways lies precisely on the parents and relatives. After all, tend to fall into such trouble children, left to themselves when mom and dad did not have enough time on them. It can be as low income, and quite prosperous families in which children too pampered, indulging all whims. In the upbringing of children requires the golden mean. Child must pay as much attention and love that he did not feel abandoned, and at the same time does not allow permissiveness. As you get older it is important to vaccinate children a sense of responsibility, following the principle of "if you want to be an adult - be kind enough to take on a certain part of the family concerns." And then, from 14-17 years, when comes the stage of socialization of teenagers, the formation of his personality, leaving the care of elders, to give him the independence, but to ask for it. Parents are also often unwilling to recognize the fact that their son or daughter to become independent. Once the children "fly from the nest, the parents in the life of a vacuum: no longer care about anyone, no one to take care of, no one to save.

Garden-Karetnaya, etc.

He gets exactly the treatment that you need only to him, and for the first time feels the confidence and ability to resist craving for the game. Of course, climate change and the family, the doctor communicates not only with Sasha, but also with his wife, because she also needed psychotherapeutic support. There is hope to save his family. People with gambling, we conducted a comprehensive survey of psychotherapy and medication from the analysis of problems and personality testing, a variety of training sessions, to the powerful impact of stress in a deep hypnotic suggestion. In all cases, the selection and treatment process must be strictly individual. But no matter how strong the impact of physician therapist or psychologist, if we talk about high quality and honest approach, this assistance as and when this drug should not be a single or even a course, because the person, even a few lessons, you can not change. For this victory sometimes need the continued support in the formation of new values ??in place of illusions! Psychotherapist Medical-Psychological Center individuality Liberman, Leonid Matveyevich

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And you're against drugs? Disease of materialism

Lead Specialist Scientific and Practical Center of National Bureau of Narcotics, developed a system of rehabilitation, including AIDS patients, a psychologist Sergei Koponen said that drug addiction - a disease of lack of will, of irresponsibility and lack of spirituality. And people can deal with it if you change the attitude toward themselves and toward life. The task of a psychologist - to help him in this. Initially, most importantly - to convince the addict in need of treatment. It is very important in the faith and confidence in the result to a psychologist. One has to realize underlying cause of their illness and to understand why he is ready to give up drug use: for the sake of realization of their dreams, for the sake of a loved one, in the end, for the sake of their own lives. For the success of treatment as an important precondition: the addict must take responsibility for their lives. Drug addiction (as well as alcoholism) - a disease of materialism, irresponsible attitude toward his life when a man by immersion in a virtual world away from solving the problems. Irresponsible drug addict trying to save anyone - parents, doctors, psychologists. Just not himself. And only when that person decides to take fate into their own hands, perhaps healing. It is extremely important to identify and eliminate the deep subconscious reasons that led to drug addiction. To achieve this objective, transpersonal psychology uses techniques such as rebirthing, meditation, breathing exercises, and psychodynamic. Sometimes so ordinary and not always fixed by adults causes as children's resentment, family conflicts, death of a parent or a divorce, complications during childbirth, create deep subconscious psychological traumas and complexes.

These are what have become game addicts! ...

He loses and wins, is looking for a system of machines and conditions of the game, and loses again, and can not stop. Unfortunately, in our world, money is considered one of the most important values, and no longer as important as they are obtained. That's why so tempting and appealing way to think, when throwing a coin, with a sinking heart, expect the air to get a lot of wealth right away. Teenagers, and sometimes mature respectable people, and come all, often hard-earned money, win, and once again lose even more, unable to stop. These are what have become game addicts! Sasha is 26 years old, he had a family, wife and two children, but he says: "I can not play as soon as get the money in hand." Families on the brink of divorce. Sasha gets the money is hard work (he works at a construction site) and they would have quite enough for the family, but as soon as they fall into his hands, he comes to play. Sometimes he wins a lot of really, but already so built mechanism of excitement that by the end of the game, he loses much more. Sasha's wife admits that whenever my husband salary, she did not know whether he will bring anything home. Gaming addict, just like an ordinary drug addict with the experience, do not stop the moral barriers, it can pick up the last money - not only their but also their parents and their families, their own child. He can sell things from the house, not thinking about anything else, in addition to rather try their luck again: "And suddenly, just now you are lucky!" Then he finally - that pay off all debts, he gets rich, will prove to everyone how he was right after winning, as the same teddy bear in a transparent cube, here it is, next! And so it is infinite. Since collapse of the family, the man climbs into huge debts and there is no end to it. It is - true addiction, though, and play, but not a toy! As with conventional drugs, not all games are subject to the individual (after all, most people simply do not want to try drugs, as most simply do not want to play for money), but only those who have psychological problems, personality problems. The main error in the approach to care for gambling addiction, as with drug alone: ??exhortations relatives in these cases are useless! Man needs skilled care of a psychologist and psychotherapist, he should be treated! And most importantly, this aid, as in the usual drugs, should be long! A drug addict who has received a full course of treatment, is not immune from relapse, as long as it does not take place continuously maintained psychotherapeutic work. A similar principle should be respected in the gambling addiction. A person with problems who was involved in the game and the constant need qualified expert help, which should not simply stop the game and replace the defective personality than something new - an interesting case, the idea of ??long-term goal. It's a long process of correcting the individual, but it's the only way. Sasha receives psychotherapy and not playing for 3 months, although I played every two weeks, once received a paycheck.

And, what is most sad, man-alcoholic ...

The interesting thing is that she does this, usually unconsciously, and the actions of her, at first glance, seem способствующимивыздоровлению husband (scolds him for his drunkenness, drags on doctors, etc.). Sometimes the "holding" her husband in Alcoholism is engaged in his own mother, attacks, many other people (friends, friends, partners), but it uzhedrugaya theme. Is it possible to long marriage to a woman who drinks? Also yes, but it yavleniebolee rare, characterized by the fact that man is rolzabotlivogo father, and a woman - naughty daughter. Descriptions podobnoysituatsii in contemporary literature are rare, vozmozhnopotomu that the phenomenon is not widespread, kakpredyduschee. Finally, the long-term marriage in which husband and wife drink yavlyaetsyabrak alcoholics. This is a special situation where spouses are vanomalnoy psychological dependence from each other: they live in some iteh same alcoholic reveries, feel equally otverzhennymiobschestvom and equally dependent on the same "elixir of life, from alcohol. They can not break up because they have nowhere to go, as niktobolshe, except such as alcoholics, they do not understand. But those - svoiproblemy and fully replace the lost spouse (sometimes lyutonenavidimogo) none of them can not. And, what is most sad, man-alcoholic (as indicated by the science and statistics) still mozhnovytyanut from among alcoholics and return to normal life, but a woman-no ... Dimes EO

Caution! Gambling!

Behind the scenes, the last 5-10 years there were usually in public places, the subway, in small shops, foyers and lobbies supermarkets, color, colorful machines - gaming. Also unnoticed At the doctor's therapists and psychologists have a new category of patients with gambling addiction, which can not play. Machines are designed for all ages: from the smallest customers, who are hunting an iron paw to spring for a bunch of soft toys at the bottom of a transparent cube, to mature respectable clients, who can supply and a large amount of electronic roulette. Baby, tossing one coin after another, trying to catch the elusive toy, does not imply that he had won in the end wooly bear, cost him much more expensive than its real value. Likewise, an adult player who has put a lot of money, and eventually won, not really weigh that gain was preceded by a greater loss. But sometimes different. The principle of randomness can win right away, get "Freestuff" money or a toy next to nothing. And in the first and the second case, further work the basic principle of excitement: "What if? If I lost a few times, now must win "or" If I won so easily at once, they could win, and more! "And it's addictive. So begins the mechanism of action of excitement in the first and second variant a person pays for a thrilling sense of excitement "And suddenly, and now you are lucky!" But if a person with a stable psyche formed in a position to resist the temptation to play, the temptation of making money out of thin air, or by starting to play, time can tell yourself "Stop!", the child, adolescent, with prizes by presenting the possibility of "out of nothing" to get rich, he felt this sense of excitement, is retracted.

Just drinking a detrimental effect ...

In addition, some of the above requirements chastoformiruyutsya artificially (eg, the need for long-term euphoria), their satisfaction becomes a way of silencing some sovershennoinyh needs are not currently udovletvarimyh. Thus, a person who considers himself not a very clever and hides its (real or perceived) intellectual inferiority behind the mask of isolation and inhospitable, may have an increased need for communication, which udovletvoryaetposle taking a dose of alcohol. This is something that concerns just drinkers, and as for alcoholics (lyudeyuzhe patients), they have added to the above reasons chistofiziologicheskaya and psychological dependence. Alcohol stanovitsyasredstvom not periodic withdrawal from everyday reality into a reality, "sublime", but as a means of temporary "vypolzaniya" from realnostimerzkoy and painful reality of normal (considered raneeobydennoy). How drinking affects family life? Depending on chastotyvypivaniya and the average amount of alcohol consumed. If chelovekpet only on holidays and little by little, the singular negative posledstviymozhno not be afraid, but if he starts to drink at every opportunity ("could not refuse," "friends suggested," etc.), then wait for "sliding" into alcoholism. What happens? Change vnutrisemeynyhotnosheny for the worse, because drunk people tend to imeetbolee unpleasant character (more precisely, the behavior) than sober. Pomimoetogo in a family atmosphere there is fear associated with ozhidaniemnepriyatnyh surprises from a drunken husband. Just uhudshaetsyaekonomicheskoe position, for falling efficiency of a breadwinner, a significant portion of the money goes to alcohol and to eliminate posledstviypyanyh manifestations (physical and psychological), in addition, pyuschiychelovek often become extremely greedy (vodka for the N-tsat rubles is normal, and fruits for the home child for the same money - etodorogo). Just drinking a detrimental effect on the upbringing of children, depriving the quiet life in the family, not having a positive primerapered eyes, not receiving proper education on the part of one of both parents. Is it possible to long marriage to a drinking man? Long - yes, but it does nenazovesh normal. As shown by modern психологическиеисследования, a man in such families tend to play a role liborebenka, or dependent, or the victim or someone else in the same rode.Sootvetstvenno, a woman in such a family takes the role of a caring mother, guardian, domoupravitelnitsy, which selects herself. In this onamozhet resent the fact that it "impose" such a role, however, the layer interior of the soul, it is satisfied, because it allows her to realize zataennyymaterinsky instinct. All that makes such a wife, a uderzhivaetmuzha as a child or a helpless victim, and very indignant, kogdaon beginning of her leave. For example, ceases to be alkogolikom.Vsemi ways she tries to get it back again to his former role (snovapodtolknut to drink), and if not, then leaves him kdrugomu "child."

Do not try to get rid of me ...

If you do it, I'll be forced to defend himself, pretending to be deaf. Do not ask me to explain why I did it. Sometimes I really do not know why do so and not otherwise. Do not expose too much testing my honesty. When I was intimidated, I can easily turn into a liar. Do not forget that I love to experiment. So I understand the world. Please accept it. Do not protect me from the consequences of my mistakes. I learn from your experiences. Do not pay too much attention to my small ailments. I can learn to enjoy poor health if it attracts me so much attention. Do not try to get rid of me when I ask candid questions. If you do not answer them, you'll see that I will not ask you questions at all and will seek information somewhere on the side. Do not respond to provocative and meaningless questions. If you like to do it, you'll soon find out that I just do not want you to me constantly engaged. Never even hints that you are perfect or infallible. It gives me a feeling of futility of attempts to catch up with you. Do not worry, if we spend too little time together. What matters is how we spend it. Do not forget that I can not thrive without an understanding and encouragement, but praise when it is honestly earned, yet sometimes forgotten. A rap on the knuckles, it seems, ever. Let my fears and concerns do not cause you concern. Otherwise, I will fear even more. Show me what is courage. Treat me like you treat your friends. Then I too will be your friend. Remember that teaches me more is not a criticism, as examples to follow. And besides, remember that I love you, please answer me with love. Source: Internet publication "MED + info" to "expert advice" on the site www.medinfo.ru

Why do people drink?

Nothing in his life a man does in the absence of some benefit, even if unconscious. In this case, the benefit may not be tolkomaterialnoy, but also psychological, spiritual and even психопаталогичекой.Алкоголизм is no exception. Let's see how the same benefits poluchaetvypivshy people. Benefit (often a pleasant feeling) nafiziologicheskom level: euphoria, lightness of body heat, oschuscheniesobstvennoy physical strength, the psychological: forgetting problems, a sense of calm, elevated mood, increased sociability, emancipation, the spiritual: the satisfaction of themselves and others, a sense of brotherhood the joy of life, etc. Of course, not always the drunk person is experiencing higher opisannyeoschuscheniya, sometimes some of them may be совершеннопротивоположными, but in any case, the person drinks to poluchitkakuyu some benefit, although not always receive. This usually results in either kotkazu from alcohol, or to greater alcoholism tselyuudovletvoreniya with the same basic needs. Why do all the same kinds of people drink in different ways, and sometimes do not drink at all? Because many of those needs, as mentioned above, we can meet the soft (and drug) ways, through mental self, through sport, through creativity, черезсамосовершенствование, through communication, through positive emotions and t.d.Tot who owns these methods is better, he usually drinks and less inaoborot.